Christian Sex

My beloved brothers and sisters, I write to you what Paul wrote to the saints in his day:

“But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints.” (Ephesians 5:3)

“Finally then, brothers, we ask and encourage you in the Lord Jesus, that as you have received from us how you must walk and please God — as you are doing — do so even more. For you know what commands we gave you through the Lord Jesus. For this is God’s will, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality, so that each of you knows how to control his own body in sanctification and honor, not with lustful desires, like the Gentiles who don’t know God. This means one must not transgress against and defraud his brother in this matter, because the Lord is an avenger of all these offenses, as we also previously told and warned you. For God has not called us to impurity but to sanctification. Therefore, the person who rejects this does not reject man, but God, who also gives you His Holy Spirit.” (1 Thessalonians 4:1-8)

Once you accept Christ as Savior and Lord, God’s Holy Spirit literally comes into your heart and “seals” it, not only for salvation, but for sanctification. God’s Spirit is holy, and He commands us to also be holy.

As a child of God through acceptance and surrender to Christ, we should no longer struggle with lustful desires (anything outside God’s will). We have a “new heart,” that is now able to obey God’s commands, the first being: Love The Lord your God with all your heart, mind, soul, and strength.

How can you love God with all your mind if you are lusting?

“This is how we are sure that we have come to know Him: by keeping His commands. The one who says, “I have come to know Him,” yet doesn’t keep His commands, is a liar, and the truth is not in him. But whoever keeps His word, truly in him the love of God is perfected. This is how we know we are in Him: The one who says he remains in Him should walk just as He walked.”(1 John 2:3-6)

“Dear friends, we are God’s children now, and what we will be has not yet been revealed. We know that when He appears, we will be like Him because we will see Him as He is. And everyone who has this hope in Him purifies himself just as He is pure. Everyone who commits sin also breaks the law; sin is the breaking of law. You know that He was revealed so that He might take away sins, and there is no sin in Him. Everyone who remains in Him does not sin; everyone who sins has not seen Him or known Him. Little children, let no one deceive you! The one who does what is right is righteous, just as He is righteous. The one who commits sin is of the Devil, for the Devil has sinned from the beginning. The Son of God was revealed for this purpose: to destroy the Devil’s works. Everyone who has been born of God does not sin, because His seed remains in him; he is not able to sin, because he has been born of God.” (1 John 3:2-9)

Now the wonderful news is that if you have been sinning, you can repent and choose Christ. He will cleanse you completely and you, now knowing the truth about sin and that in Christ you can conquer it and not desire it, you will walk freely in Him.

I know many believe we’re only human, we’re inevitably going to sin, but the truth of the matter is that once you have the same Holy Spirit that raised Christ from the dead living in you, sin has been defeated in your life, and if you do sin, it is by choice and pride. You can choose not to sin because of the most powerful Holy Spirit, if He indeed lives inside of you.

The beauty is the gift of the Holy Spirit can be given to any and all who are willing, no matter your past or your present. If you choose right now to turn away from your sin and give your will, your heart, to Jesus, He will give you a brand new one and empower you with His own Spirit, enabling you to live a life that is pleasing to God.

Are you ready for transformation? It’s a willing heart and confession away. Ask Christ to forgive you for your sins and to give you His Holy Spirit. When you do, not only are you choosing the only way to heaven (Jesus), but you’re choosing the One who destroyed the power of sin and “the devil’s works,” over your life. There is nothing more freeing that being able to desire and have the power to do right and no longer desire to do wrong.

I pray you allow Christ to set you free.

“Jesus answered them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, everyone who commits sin is a slave to sin. The slave does not remain in the house forever; the son remains forever. So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.”(John 8:34-36)

To my beloved brethren

To my brothers and sisters, saints in Christ Jesus, who have crucified their desires to His cross, and have been sanctified by the power of His Holy Spirit:

I am thankful beyond measure that God has so blessed and graced me with you all. When we fellowship, I experience love that goes far deeper than that of solely blood. You guys are truly family, and when I’m with you, it’s hard to leave. We talk until the late hour about the goodness of our Lord, and I promise I could live with you guys, all of you, under one roof, and not get frustrated by any of you. I love you all so much. You’re an inspiration, a burning light of encouragement that ignites and fuels me to press all the more into the intimate knowledge of our Savior and Lord. I cannot wait, Lord willing He finds me faithful until that day, to spend all eternity with you and our Savior. Your words of truth, words of genuine encouragement and power, always strengthen me. I experience with you all what Paul describes:

“And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers, to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ, so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes. Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.”(Ephesians 4:11-16 ESV)

Thank you for your faithfulness to our King, and for building me up in love. I truly love you guys. Grace be with you always.