4 thoughts on “10 Reasons not to have sex outside of marriage”

  1. Heh this weighs heavily on my mind/heart. I’ve given in. Once,awkwardly, mistakenly, and she dropped me. While trying to find a girlfriend, everyone seems so keyed into they need to have sex, and it’s like, no. It feels so disheartening, while the world tries telling us it’s okay. Not just that it’s okay, but virginity is the shameful thing. Thanks for the article.

    1. No problem brother. I am so blessed it spoke to you.

      “I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.” (Romans 12:1, 2)

      There is a woman who fears and loves The Lord so much so that she will desire to honor Him and you, and not entice you to sin sexually. Boundaries need to be discussed before pursuing a deeper friendship and looking to future marriage with this person. Are you connected to a good, Bible-teaching church?

        1. Understood. But praise God you realized and now can make better choices when you meet a godly woman you know you want to marry. As long as we turn away from our sins, God washes you clean and forgets them. And a person who loves Him will also forgive you. You keep following Him. I believe you will make a good husband one day.

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